Monday, June 27, 2011

Cracked Pots !

Welcome to 9th Monday Musings:



A water bearer in India had two large pots, each hung on each end of a pole which he carried across his neck. One of the pots had a crack in it, and while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water at the end of the long walk from the stream to the master's house, the cracked pot arrived only half full.


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For a full two years this went on daily, with the bearer delivering only one and a half pots full of water in his master's house. Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments, perfect to the end for which it was made. But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection, and miserable that it was able to accomplish only half of what it had been made to do.

After two years of what it perceived to be a bitter failure, it spoke to the water bearer one day by the stream.

"I am ashamed of myself, and I want to apologize to you."

"Why?" asked the bearer.

"What are you ashamed of?"

"I have been able, for these past two years, to deliver only half my load because this crack in my side causes water to leak out all the way back to your master's house. Because of my flaws, you have to do all of this work, and you don't get full value from your efforts," the pot said.

The water bearer felt sorry for the old cracked pot, and in his compassion he said, "As we return to the master's house, I want you to notice the beautiful flowers along the path." Indeed, as they went up the hill, the old cracked pot took notice of the sun warming the beautiful wild flowers on the side of the path, and this cheered it some. But at the end of the trail, it still felt bad because it had leaked out half its load, and so again it apologized to the bearer for its failure.

The bearer said to the pot, "Did you notice that there were flowers only on your side of your path, but not on the other pot's side? 

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That's because I have always known about your flaw, and I took advantage of it. I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk back from the stream, you've watered them. For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate my master's table. Without you being just the way you are, he would not have this beauty to grace his house."

Moral of the story :


Each of us has our own unique flawsWe're all cracked pots.

But it's the cracks and flaws we each have that make our lives together so very interesting and rewarding. We have just got to take each person for what they are, and look for the good in them.

There is a lot of good out there. There is a lot of good in us! Blessed are the flexible, for they shall not be bent out of shape. Remember to appreciate all the different people in your life! Or as I like to think of it-if it hadn't been for the crackpots in my life, it would have been pretty boring and not so interesting....

Make it a great Week !


Shailesh

Monday, June 20, 2011

The Harder Knocks !

Welcome to 8th Monday Musings:



There was this museum laid with beautiful marble tiles, with a huge marble statue displayed in the middle of the lobby. Many people came from all over the world just to admire this statue. One night, the marble tiles started talking to the marble statue.

Marble Tiles: Hey statue, it's just not fair. Why does everybody from all over the world come all the way here just to step on me while admiring you?

Marble Statue: My dear friend, marble tile, do u still remember that we were actually from the same cave?

Marble Tiles: Yes! that's why I feel it is even more unfair. We were born from the same cave and yet we receive different treatment now. Not fair!

Marble Statue: Then, do you still remember the day when the designer tried to work on you but you resisted the tools?

Marble Tiles : Yes, I hate that guy, how could he use those tools on me?

Marble Statue : Well, he couldn't work on you, when he decided to give up on you and start working on me instead. I knew at once that I would be something different after his efforts. I bore all the painful tools he used on me!

Marble Statue continued: My friend, there is a price to everything in life, since you decided to give up half way, you can't blame anybody who steps on you now.!


Moral of the story :

The harder the knocks you go through in life, the more you learn and put them to use in the future!  Do not be discouraged by setbacks and failures. Don't resist change embrace it.


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Who knows, these setbacks & failures and the fears that come with change may the tools for your success tomorrow!!................................



Make it a great Week !

Shailesh

Monday, June 13, 2011

Life is an Echo !

Welcome to 7th Monday Musings:



A father and his son were walking in the mountains. Suddenly, the son falls, hurts himself and screams: AAAhhhhhhhhhhh !"

To his surprise, he hears the voice repeating, somewhere in the mountain: "AAAhhhhhhhhhhh !". Curious, he yells: "Who are you?"

He receives the answer: "Who are you?"

Angered at the response, he screams: "Coward!"

He receives the answer: "Coward!"

He looks to his father and asks: "What's going on?"

The father smiles and says: "My son, pay attention." And then he yells to the mountain: "I admire you!"

The voice answers: "I admire you!"

Again the man yells: "You are a champion!"

The voice answers: "You are a champion!"

The boy is surprised, but does not understand. Then the father explains: "People call this ECHO, but really this is LIFE. It gives you back everything you say or do. Our life is simply a reflection of our actions.

If you want more love in the world, create more love in your heart. If you want more competence in your team, improve your competence. This relationship applies to everything, in all aspects of life; life will give you back everything you have given to it.


Moral of the story :

Your life is not a coincidence. It's a reflection of you !



Make it a great Week !

Shailesh

Monday, June 6, 2011

Leadership is a choice !


Welcome to 6th Monday Musings:



There was a huge traffic jam on the Mumbai highway. It was unusually hot outside and tempers were running high inside.

Cyprian D'Souza, MD – Kanbay (Now Capegemini) India, decided to get out of the car and started to walk, he was curious to see what had contributed to the traffic jam. He requested his driver to pick him up down the road when the traffic started moving.

When he arrived at the cross-roads, he saw a young man guiding the traffic. He wasn't a policeman, he wasn't one of the many  corporate executives waiting and swearing in the cars. He was a helper from one of the many trucks waiting for the traffic to ease.

Cyprian D'Souza was struck by the truck helper to take charge of an impossible situation. Many had chosen to sit in the cars, honk the horns and curse. Others had contributed to the chaos by going around and pushing forward. Only one, and a most unlikely person, had chosen to rise to the leadership challenge.

Leadership is a choice. Leading is an activity. It's our ability to exercise our freedom to assume responsibility for the given situation. No formal education, fancy titles or fat salaries make one a leader. It's not an external assignment, but an internal resolve.


This is a true incident happened with Cyprian D'Souza, MD - Kanbay India (Authenticity of the incident is not verified)


Moral of the story :

Leadership is neither a rank nor a title. It is a choice.

The choice to provide care and protection for those for whom we are responsible.

It's the choice not to do nothing.





Make it a great Week !


Shailesh