Monday, June 11, 2012

Opportunities !


Welcome to 51st Monday Musings:



A young man wished to marry the farmer's beautiful daughter. He went to the farmer to ask his permission.




The farmer looked at him and said, "Son, go stand out in that field. I'm going to release three bulls, one at a time. If you can catch the tail of any one of the three bulls, you can marry my daughter."

The young man stood in the field awaiting the first bull. The barn door opened  and out came the biggest, meanest looking bull he had ever seen.. He decided that one of the next bulls had to be a better choice than this one, so he ran over to the side and let the bull pass through.

The barn door opened again.

Unbelievable. He had never seen anything so big and fierce in his life. It stood pawing the ground, it eyed him. Whatever the next bull was like, it had to be a better choice than this one he thought.

He ran to the fence and let the bull pass through.

The door opened a third time. A smile came across his face. This was the weakest bull he had ever seen. This one was his bull, he said to himself.

As the bull came running by, he positioned himself just right and jumped at just the exact moment. He threw his hands to grab..... But alas..... The bull had no tail.


Moral of the story :

Life is full of opportunities. Always grab the first one.

"Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work." ~  Thomas Edison

"Your regrets aren't what you did, but what you didn't do. So I take every opportunity." ~ Cameron Diaz

Never wait for an opportunity in life, always use the first , make it best …….and if you feel opportunity is not opening door, create one !


Make it a great Week !

Shailesh

Monday, June 4, 2012

Rules to Live by !



Welcome to 50th Monday Musings: 
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Lesson #1


A crow was sitting on a tree, doing nothing all day. A small rabbit  noticed the crow, and asked, "Can I sit like you and do nothing all day long?"

The crow answered, "Sure, why not."



So, the rabbit sat on the ground below the crow, and rested, All of a sudden, a tiger appeared, jumped on the rabbit and ate it!
 




The moral of the story:

“To be sitting and doing nothing, you must be sitting very, very high up...”



Lesson #2

A turkey was chatting with a bull. "I would love to be able to get to the top of that tree,"sighed the turkey, "but I haven't got the energy."



"Well, why don't you nibble on some of my droppings?" replied the bull. "They're packed with nutrients."


The turkey pecked at a lump of dung and found that it actually gave him enough strength to reach the first branch of the tree. The next day, after eating some more dung, he reached the second branch. Finally after a fortnight, there he was proudly perched at the top of the tree. Soon he was promptly spotted by a farmer, who shot the turkey out of the tree!



The moral of the story

”Bullshit might get you to the top, but it won’t keep you there...”



Lesson #3


A little bird was flying south for the winter.

It was so cold, the bird froze and fell to the ground in a large field.

While it was lying there, a cow came by and dropped some dung on it. As the frozen bird lay there in the pile of cow dung, it began to realize how warm it was.



The dung was actually thawing him out. He lay there all warm and happy, and soon began to sing for joy




A passing cat heard the bird singing and came to investigate.

Following the sound, the cat discovered the bird under the pile of cow dung, and promptly dug him out and ate him!


The moral of the story:

1.    Not everyone who drops shit on you is your enemy
2.    Not everyone who gets you out of shit is your friend
3.    When you are in deep shit, keep your mouth shut




Many people worry so much about managing every other thing, but rarely spend half that much energy managing their LIVES. we should make our life best, not unrealistic things, the best it can be. The rest will work itself out.


Make it a great Week !

Shailesh

Monday, May 21, 2012

Self Appraisal !



Welcome to 49th  Monday Musings:



A little boy went into a drug store, reached for a soda carton and pulled it over to the telephone. He climbed onto the carton so that he could reach the buttons on the phone and proceeded to punch in seven digits (phone numbers). 

The store-owner observed and listened to the conversation.




Boy: "Lady, Can you give me the job of cutting your lawn?

Woman: (at the other end of the phone line): "I already have someone to cut my lawn."

Boy: "Lady, I will cut your lawn for half the price of the person who cuts your lawn now."

Woman: I’m very satisfied with the person who is presently cutting my lawn.

Boy: (with more perseverance) : "Lady, I’ll even sweep your curb and your sidewalk, so on Sunday you will have the prettiest lawn in all of Palm beach , Florida."

Woman: No, thank you.

With a smile on his face, the little boy replaced the receiver. The store-owner, who was listening to all this, walked over to the boy.


Store Owner: 'Son” I like your attitude; I like that positive spirit and would like to offer you a job."

Boy: "No thanks."

Store Owner: But you were really pleading for one.

Boy: No Sir, I was just checking my performance at the Job I already have. I am the one who is working for that lady, I was talking to!"

Moral of the story :

This is what we call ‘Self Appraisal’.

Every time if we don’t get ahead of others, we blame others for it.  We should look to our self and compare, find own weaknesses and work hard to throw away weaknesses. 

Always Work Hard, Honest and with full Dedication.  It will always pay up.

Excellence is a drive from Inside not Outside, The desire to excel should be exclusive of the fact whether someone appreciates it or not.


Make it a great Week !

Shailesh

Monday, May 14, 2012

8 Lies Of A Mother !

Welcome to 48th  Monday Musings:

Yesterday being ‘Mothers Day’, and This week being mothers’ week, I am dedicating this Monday Musing to all mothers, story is narrated by an unknown author







This story begins when I was a child: I was born poor. Often we hadn’t enough to eat. Whenever we had some food, Mother often gave me her portion of rice. While she was transferring her rice into my bowl, she would say “Eat this rice, son! I’m not hungry.”


This was Mother’s First Lie.

As I grew, Mother gave up her spare time to fish in a river near our house; she hoped that from the fish she caught, she could give me a little bit more nutritious food for my growth. Once she had caught just two fish, she would make fish soup. While I was eating the soup, mother would sit beside me and eat what was still left on the bone of the fish I had eaten; My heart was touched when I saw it. Once I gave the other fish to her on my chopstick but she immediately refused it and said, “Eat this fish, son! I don’t really like fish.”

This was Mother’s Second Lie.

Then, in order to fund my education, Mother went to a Match Factory to bring home some used matchboxes which she filled with fresh matchsticks. . This helped her get some money to cover our needs. One wintry night I awoke to find Mother filling the matchboxes by candlelight. So I said, “Mother, go to sleep; it’s late: you can continue working tomorrow morning.” Mother smiled and said “Go to sleep, son! I’m not tired.”

This was Mother’s Third Lie

When I had to sit my Final Examination, Mother accompanied me.. After dawn, Mother waited for me for hours in the heat of the sun. When the bell rang, I ran to meet her.. Mother embraced me and poured me a glass of tea that she had prepared in a thermos. The tea was not as strong as my Mother’s love, Seeing Mother covered with perspiration; I at once gave her my glass and asked her to drink too. Mother said “Drink, son! I’m not thirsty!”.

This was Mother’s Fourth Lie.

After Father’s death, Mother had to play the role of a single parent. She held on to her former job; she had to fund our needs alone. Our family’s life was more complicated. We suffered from starvation. Seeing our family’s condition worsening, my kind Uncle who lived near my house came to help us solve our problems big and small.

Our other neighbours saw that we were poverty stricken so they often advised my mother to marry again. But Mother refused to remarry saying "I don’t need love."

This was Mother’s Fifth Lie.

After I had finished my studies and gotten a job, it was time for my old Mother to retire but she carried on going to the market every morning just to sell a few vegetables. I kept sending her money but she was steadfast and even sent the money back to me. She said, “I have enough money.”

That was Mother’s Sixth Lie.

I continued my part-time studies for my Master’s Degree. Funded by the American Corporation for which I worked, I succeeded in my studies. With a big jump in my salary, I decided to bring Mother to enjoy life in America but Mother didn't want to bother her son; she said to me “I’m not used to high living.”

That was Mother’s Seventh Lie

In her dotage, Mother was attacked by cancer and had to be hospitalized. Now living far across the ocean, I went home to visit Mother who was bedridden after an operation. Mother tried to smile but I was heartbroken because she was so thin and feeble but Mother said, “Don’t cry, son! I’m not in pain.”

That was Mother’s Eighth Lie.

Telling me this, her eighth lie, she died.

YES, MY MOTHER WAS AN ANGEL!

M - O - T - H - E - R

”M” is for the Million things she gave me,
“O” means Only that she’s growing old,
”T”  is for the Tears she shed to save me,
”H” is for her Heart of gold,
”E” is for her Eyes with love-light shining in them,
”R” means Right, and right she’ll always be,


Put them all together, they spell ”MOTHER”,

A word that means the world to All.


M:Most O: Original T:Topclass H:Honorable E:Excellent R:Respectable





“God couldn't be everywhere, so he created mothers”



Moral of the story :


Do you really need one ?

For those of you who are lucky to be still blessed with your Mom’s presence on Earth, this story is beautiful, For those who aren't so blessed, this is even more beautiful.

Who ran to help me when I fell,
And would some pretty story tell,
Or kiss the place to make it well?
My Mother.

The most beautiful person on this earth, Our best critic, Yet our strongest supporter, "M o t h e r"



Make it a great Week !

Shailesh

Monday, May 7, 2012

Decisions .......


Welcome to 47th  Monday Musings:


A group of children were playing near two railway tracks, one still in use while the other unused. Only one child played on the unused track, the rest on the operational track.

The train is coming, and you are just beside the track interchange. You can make the train change its course to the unused track and save most of the kids. However, that would also mean the lone child playing by the unused track would be sacrificed. Or would you rather let the train go its way?

Let's take a pause to think what kind of decision we could make................






Most people might choose to divert the course of the train, and sacrifice only one child.

You might think the same way, may be not

Exactly, the author thought the same way initially because to save most of the children at the expense of only one child was rational decision most people would make, morally and emotionally. But, have you ever thought that the child choosing to play on the unused track had in fact made the right decision to play at a safe place?

Nevertheless, he had to be sacrificed because of his ignorant friends who chose to play where the danger was.

This kind of dilemma happens around us every day. In the office, community, in politics and especially in a democratic society, the minority is often sacrificed for the interest of the majority, no matter how foolish or ignorant the majority are, and how farsighted and knowledgeable the minority are. The child who chose not to play with the rest on the operational track was sidelined. And in the case he was sacrificed, no one would shed a tear for him.

The great critic Leo Velski Julian who told the story said he would not try to change the course of the train because he believed that the kids playing on the operational track should have known very well that track was still in use, and that they should have run away if they heard the train's sirens.

If the train was diverted, that lone child would definitely die because he never thought the train could come over to that track! Moreover, that track was not in use probably because it was not safe. If the train was diverted to the track, we could put the lives of all passengers on board at stake! And in your attempt to save a few kids by sacrificing one child, you might end up sacrificing hundreds of people to save these few kids.

While we are all aware that life is full of tough decisions that need to be made, we may not realize that hasty decisions may not always be the right one.

"Remember that what's right isn't always popular... and what's popular isn't always right."

Everybody makes mistakes; that's why they put erasers on pencils.


Moral of the story :

A Decision, a single word makes big impact on our lives, and make sure you are making a right decision, think twice, consider what you think justice requires, and decide accordingly.  But never give your reasons, for your judgment will probably be right, but your reasons will certainly be wrong. It doesn't matter which side of the fence you get off on sometimes. What matters most is getting off. You cannot make progress without making decisions.

Always Learn from your mistakes, after all Good decisions come from experience, and experience comes from bad decisions.

sometimes tough decision is a choiceRemember that what's right isn't always popular... and what's popular isn't always right ,We have seen the impossible problem being solved when we see that the problem is only a tough decision waiting to be made.

Don’t Make Decisions When You’re Angry. Don’t Make Promises When You’re Happy

After all…., Life is the sum of all your choices, choose wisely !



Make it a great Week !

Shailesh

Monday, April 30, 2012

Hospital Window

Welcome to 46th  Monday Musings:


Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room.

One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. His bed was next to the room’s only window.

The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back. The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation.

Every afternoon when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window.





The man in the other bed began to live for those one hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside.

The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance.

As the man by the window described all this in exquisite detail, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine the picturesque scene.

One warm afternoon the man by the window described a parade passing by.

Although the other man couldn't hear the band he could see it. In his mind’s eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words.

Days and weeks passed.

One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep. She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away.

As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone.

Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside.

He strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside the bed.

It faced a blank wall. The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window

The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall.

She said, "Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you."

Moral of the story :

It is very important to generate a good attitude, a good heart, as much as possible. More the times people think less of their own comfort and compare the comfort of others, instead of helping others. Just think of blind man, who could increased life of another sick person without considering his limited physical abilities, why can’t we think good for all.

To rejoice in another's prosperity, is to give content to your own lot: to mitigate another's grief, is to alleviate or dispel your own. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything, they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. Albert Einstein said “Only a life lived for others is a life worthwhile”

Life's most persistent and urgent question is, What are you doing for others ?  ~ Martin Luther King, Jr.



Make it a great Week !

Shailesh

Monday, April 23, 2012

Don't judge a book by its cover !


Welcome to 45th  Monday Musings:



One truck driver was doing his usual load delivery at a mental hospital, by parking his vehicle beside an open drain. He discovered a flat Tyre when he was about to return from the mental hospital. He jacked up the truck and removed the flat Tyre to fix the spare Tyre.

When he was about to fix the spare Tyre  he accidentally dropped all the 4 bolts in the open drain. As he cannot fish the bolts in the open drain, he started to panic as to what should be done?
Just then, one patient happened to walk past him and asked the driver as to why he was looking troubled.

The driver thought to himself, since there is nothing much he can do or this mental joker can. Just to keep the bugging away, the truck driver informed the whole episode to the mental patient and gave a helpless look.

The patient just laughed at the truck driver and said you just cannot even fix such a simple problem? "No wonder you are destined to remain a truck driver for life".
The truck driver was astonished to hear such a compliment from a mental guy. "Here is what you can do" said the mental guy... "take one bolt from each of the remaining 3 tyres / wheels and fix it on to this tyre.

Then drive down to the nearest workshop and replace the missing ones. Isn't it simple my friend".
The truck driver was so impressed with this quick fix answer and asked the patient "How come you are so smart and intelligent and you are here at the mental hospital?"

The patient replied "Dear friend! I stay here because I am crazy but not stupid".




No wonder, there are some people, who behave like the Truck Driver, thinking that others are just stupid. So, guys, though you all are learned and wise, but, just watch out, there could be some CRAZY guys in our professional / personal lives, who could give us lot of quick fixes and brush our wisdom.

Moral of the story :

you shouldn't prejudge the worth or value of something, by its outward appearance alone, Just do not conclude that you know everything and do not judge people by mere looks/ attire stature or academic background !

Without being judgmental, you should always be ready to learn anything from anyone and anytime.

 You must not forget, A perception can be deceptive,  So Never Judge a book by Its cover.
Make it a great Week !

Shailesh